Proverbs 9:16 Whoso is simple, let him turn in hither: And as for him that wanteth understanding, she saith to him,
The fast, loose, woman calls to the young simpleton. He is not smart enough to realize that she wants to ruin his life. He goes in to sin proving his lack of intelligence. He is not wise. He that will listen to the call of sin shows his foolishness.
Porn is calling you. Adultery is calling you. All sexual sin and deviancy are calling you. You will show your lack of intelligence if you accept what the world and Satan would say. God knows what is best. He has done was is best.
Your confusion is caused by your foolishness and rebellion. Wake up. You are smarter than this. Don’t hurt yourself by doing something so foolish.