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Proverbs 6:32 But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: He that doeth it destroyeth his own soul.
Sex outside of marriage is not worth it. Adultery is sex with someone besides the person you are married to. You committed your life to one person. You are to love that person and no other.
When you have sex outside of marriage, you show your lack of intelligence. This will destroy any intimacy. It will ruin your marriage. You show you do not know God. You indicate that you do not care what God thinks. Adultery will destroy your very soul essence.
Be loyal to your marriage. Be faithful to God.
If you have failed via literal adultery or even porn you can get back where you should be. Repent of your sin. Come back to where you should be. Do right. Prove to your spouse that you will love them and be loyal to them. Honor God. Honor your spouse.