Numbers 32:24 Build you cities for your little ones, and folds for your sheep; and do that which hath proceeded out of your mouth.
2 1/2 tribes of Israel chose their inheritance on the wrong side of the river. God accepted their petition to do so. The funny thing is that they wanted to make sure their wives and children were secure before they went into battle. The other tribes would have to take their wives and children. They would be risking their children.
Don’t play that game. Put some skin in the game. Fight like your brothers need to fight. Don’t look for the easy way out.