Haggai 1:9 Ye looked for much, and, lo, it came to little; And when ye brought it home, I did blow upon it. Why? saith the LORD of hosts. Because of mine house that is waste, And ye run every man unto his own house.
The prophet Haggai was speaking to them about their priorities. They took care of their houses but not His house. They were concerned about themselves but not about Him.
It is so easy to get caught up in taking care of your own family, your future, your finances, etc that you do not think of the things of God. Or even the things of God can get in the way of you doing what you want and need to do.
This is the direction of Matthew 6:33 isn’t it? He is first and foremost. He shouldn’t have to be saying, what about me!