Judges 14:3 Then his father and his mother said unto him, Is there never a woman among the daughters of thy brethren, or among all my people, that thou goest to take a wife of the uncircumcised Philistines? And Samson said unto his father, Get her for me; for she pleaseth me well.
Samson will be used of God but to be honest he is pretty much a brat of a child. He has been, seemingly, poorly raised. He lives for his pleasures and not what is necessarily right. It is true that God is going to use even his foolishness for His honor and His glory but that is not to say that Samson is right.
Samson decides that he wants to get married. He chooses a woman. It is not the right type of woman that the people of God should choose. His only defense is “I like her!” He demands that his parents get her for him.
God will use even this mess up for His honor but somewhere in here we should consider that Samson’s parents might have missed a few important lessons for their son.
Also we might consider that if they did teach the lesson that Samson simply is a very rebellious kid and demands what he wants.
We should never live looking for what pleases us but rather what pleases Him. It should be our prayer to say, not my will be done but yours!