Genesis 24:50 Then Laban and Bethuel answered and said, The thing proceedeth from the LORD: we cannot speak unto thee bad or good.
I think this verse sums up how we should think, feel, and react to certain things that happen in our lives. I definitely do not believe in fatalism but there are somethings that God just does or allows to happen. We should just learn to accept them, live with them and go on!
There are events way beyond our control. We shouldn’t worry or get angry over them but realize that God is at work in our lives doing lots of things and we will just trust Him. He will do what is best for us His children!