Hosea 1:2 The beginning of the word of the LORD by Hosea. And the LORD said to Hosea, Go, take unto thee a wife of whoredoms and children of whoredoms: for the land hath committed great whoredom, departing from the LORD.
When God wanted to speak to His people He told Hosea to go and take an adulterous wife because that would be the message that Hosea would deliver.
Often we may not understand why God is allowing certain things to happen in our lives but He may just be preparing us to be the message He will deliver to some of His people. Hosea will experience in his own life what God was communicating to His people.
Could it be that you are going through something just to help you help others. Maybe you should do what I need to do, trust God that He would only do what was best in your life!