I wanted to share some personal thoughts from these 5 years the Lord has allowed us to be missionaries here in Argentina. The next few blogs I will be posting will be specifically addressing â€œLifeâ€™s Lessons on the Mission Fieldâ€.
This first lesson is the freshest on my mind as well as a very recent incident that happened. Just days ago, on Saturday, Mindy was in the hospital because of the loss of our baby. To make the story brief, she was bleeding a lot and if they would not have taken her to surgery, she could of died. Most of the nurses and hospital workers were on vacation and/or out of the office. It seemed that no one was attending us and Mindy was getting worse and worse. I began to pray with her and then in my heart, â€œLord, please let her live, I need her, I will be different, please give her back to me.â€ This big scare that happened, brings me to my first â€œLifeâ€™s Lessons on the Mission Fieldâ€ – the need of your spouse.
How many times have I been so wrapped up in work that I forgot about my precious wife. It took a â€œclose to deathâ€ experience for me to wake up. We have talked since and realize how much time we have wasted over silly arguments and disagreements that make no sense. My stubbornness, not wanting to give in, etc has made me lose so much time of this short life with my wonderful wife. As Solomon explains in Song of Solomon 2:5, â€œthe little foxes, that spoil the vinesâ€. The little arguments, the little petty things in life that steal time and ruin relationships.
I counsel our young people in our church to not get married unless they can serve the Lord more as a couple than they could being single. But how often have I not taken my own advice. The Lord has given me a â€œhelp meetâ€ one to not only accompany me, but to complete me. A precious jewel, a friend, a co-laborer to help me in the ministry. And together, as a team, we can do so much more for our Lord than being separate.
How foolish I have been many times ignoring my wife to try and â€œgrowâ€ the church, when the truth is that most of the people I have striven to get in church ends up leaving after a short time. It is not to say that my labor has been in vain with people, but I have found out that although many have used me in the ministry, my wife is always at home to love me and accept me.
To conclude this first lesson, I cry out to myself and many married couples on the mission field, â€œyou can lose your ministry and still have your wife, but if you lose your wife, you will lose both ministry and wifeâ€. Life is short to waste it not being in love. Maybe Romeo was not all that silly, maybe â€œa threefold cord is not quickly brokenâ€ (Ecc 4:12). So grab your wife by the hand and enjoy the time God has given you on the journey for Him.
Here to Serve,