In our discipleship study right now we are seeing how God directs our lives and how we can find His will. I came across this in one of the blogs that I read each day and thought it went hand in hand with what we are studying and thought that it would be a blessing for you to read.
by Warren Vanhetloo
Christians ought to have some clear pattern to follow in making decisions, whether major or minor. We are constantly making choices. Many things we do out of habit, and establishing commendable habits is important in every life. Some, when they face an important decision, wonder, What would a parent do? A good question to ask is, â€œWhat would Jesus do?â€ We make some decisions quickly without much thought. We may mull over pros and cons of some matters for days and never come to a solution. Too often we only mentally flip a coin (yes, thatâ€™s a type of gambling).
There are principles in the Word of God a believer needs to keep in mind for every decision he makes each day. The first and most important principle is not really a decision open for discussion, and so, although it is primary, it does not involve any â€œprocess.â€ If Scripture says do it, do it; if Scripture forbids it, donâ€™t do it. Many choices are just that clear-cut. Should we ever lie? Ought we ever to steal? Should we spend time or money on lascivious living? Should we encourage a grieving brother? Our response to whatever God expects should not be just meeting â€œthe letter of the law,â€ but a joyful willingness to do His will.
Many moral issues and personal choices are that simple: obey God; do what the Scripture teaches. Should I be a witness to others? That is clearly commanded. Should I go as a missionary to Germany? Several choices and decisions are involved. For such non-moral and unrevealed matters, a simple pattern seems helpful: Ask, Search, Believe. This ASB pattern for decision making should be easy to understand, easy to remember, and easy to put into practice. To repeat, it is not to be employed for anything that is clearly commanded or forbidden in Godâ€™s authoritative instruction book (2 Tim. 3:16-17).
Adam was given only one restriction, Do not eat from the tree of knowledge of good and evil. Of the other trees and other fruits he saw day after day, he could freely choose. The number, the variety, the color, the tasteâ€”for all of those fruits Adam had full freedom of choice. Whatever he chose and for whatever reason he chose it, he was honoring God. Similarly we today may freely choose to wear a green sweater or a blue one. We may prefer pie to cake.
Our choices, thus, are not always right vs. wrong, but good vs. better, acceptable vs. preferable. Making a â€œwrongâ€ choice is not involved in non-moral or non-revealed decisions. Although many decisions are personal preferences within the scope of Godâ€™s provision, they pertain to matters we consider really important: Which college? Which job? Knee replacement? To a nursing home? For these decisions involving the outcome of the choice, we desire to have guidance from One who knows us and who knows the futureâ€”that is, with God. Try: Ask, Search, Believe.
You have not because you ask not (James 4:2). A quick, unspoken prayer will do it. Ask God for guidance, for wisdom, for discernment (James 1:5). Clear your heart of personal preferences and be open to whichever choice will most honor Him. Ask God for a proper attitude (see 1 Tim. 6:17-19) while weighing which choice to make and in the full confidence of being guided by Him. Ask doesnâ€™t take long.
Search means, â€œDo not make a hasty or unfounded choice.â€ You have asked for wisdom. Now use your grey matter and expect God to guide you. You have the Holy Spirit residing within to guide you. He can lead you to Scripture verses or to important principles. He can call to your remembrance things you should weigh. In His Word, God has given us all the guidance we need to make proper decisions; expect the Holy Spirit to impress those principles on your heart.
Do the â€œsmartâ€ thingâ€”God does not honor dumbness. Confer with godly advisors. Check with those most familiar with matters that are involved. Do not â€œput out a fleeceâ€ or expect a lightning bolt. Carefully consider everything involved, and as you face a deadline, make the best choice you can based on all you have considered.
Then trust that God has guided you in your decision. Thatâ€™s the B of our formula: Ask, Search, Believe. You asked God; now believe He heard and answered and guided you in your choice. Believe that the Holy Spirit directed in the wisdom employed in reaching your decision. Accept that God has provided the principles and the special wisdom needed. He has directed you to make the decision that will best glorify Him. Do not doubt. Do not replay the pros and cons over and over. You asked God to guide youâ€”why doubt that He has done so?
Does this mean that if we employ the ASB pattern, every decision we make will be the â€œrightâ€ decision? Will we always profit financially? Will all problems always be cleared up? Any who have that expectation are missing one important phase of the process: the decision we make will â€œglorify God.â€ Sometimes the result may not mean â€œsuccessâ€ or â€œprofitâ€ as the world sees it. But in Godâ€™s supreme plan for our spiritual maturity, it is that which will accomplish His best. We believe and accept that. We know that all God wants for us is for our good. All God allows to happen to us is for some eternal benefit. Until we see Him face to face, we just trust Him and rejoice in His grace and goodness.