Perhaps you are a child of God who is in trouble. Perhaps that trouble eats away at your spirit and daily causes your heart to weep. Call upon the name of the Lord. He can take away the vexation and also the trouble. On the other hand, you may still have to bear the trouble, but it will be so transformed that it will be a blessing rather than an evil. When the nature of your cross has changed, you will fall in love with it.