I want to invite you to read a very interesting article that came out in World Magazine. Forgiveness is tough work. It is very difficult to learn to forgive and this article really does a good job of explaining that. Check it out by clicking here. The first paragraph is found right here but you will have to click on the link to read the rest.
Forgiving is the hardest thing you will ever do. That’s why most people don’t do it. We talk about it, cheer for it, preach on it, and are sure we’ve practiced it. But mostly the illusion of having forgiven is that the passage of time dulls memory. The ruse will come to light with hair-trigger vengeance when fresh offense hurls in to empty out the gunnysack of half-digested grievances.